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I noticed it first with a tampon. Just an ordinary Tuesday. Something felt different, drier, a little resistant, and I filed it away as strange and got on with my...

How to talk to your partner about desire in perimenopause. When desire changes in perimenopause, the silence is often the hardest part. Here's how to start the conversation without it...

Why stress kills desire in perimenopause and what your body is doing. Stress doesn't just affect your mood. In perimenopause it directly suppresses desire. Here's what cortisol is doing and...

HRT and desire in perimenopause: what the research actually says. The 2002 study scared women off HRT for decades. Here's what the evidence actually shows and why the conversation is...

Spontaneous desire isn't the only kind. Here's what responsive desire actually is, and why not feeling "in the mood" first doesn't mean something's wrong.

You’re waking up at 2:32am. Sweaty, wired, exhausted. Somewhere between night sweats and broken sleep, a heavier question creeps in: Where did my libido go? This is for the women...